Another way to ease tensions that might arise due to work style or personality differences is by encouraging, as Hayat does, open communication. If staff members feel comfortable discussing their smaller gripes and annoyances with each other, and they do so in a professional and polite manner, it's less likely those small issues will escalate into big altercations, says Jamie Claypool, president of practice management consulting firm J. Claypool Associates.
She recently consulted in a practice where there was a significant age gap between the two front-desk staffers. Tensions arose because the younger woman felt comfortable openly discussing her personal life, while the older woman felt this was inappropriate. "Those kinds of things, in the older lady's generation, are things you don't discuss, period," says Claypool. "You don't take them to work ..."
If the older woman had sat down with the younger woman to discuss her feelings, it may have led to a much healthier environment, in which the two staffers could work together more comfortably. "You see practices that rarely have conflict, and I think the big difference is communication," Claypool says. "They're able to embrace their differences, and they're able to communicate about what's annoying in a professional and rational way."
Focus on fairness
Another common source of tension in practices is favoritism (or perceived favoritism) between staff members, such as when cliques form and one staff member is left out; or between staff members and practice leadership, such as when a physician treats his nurse differently than the others. "It creates a double standard, and it creates a sense of unfairness, and it creates a sense of inferiority on the members that are not getting preferential treatment," says Claypool.
She recommends cultivating a no-favoritism culture at your practice by addressing it with leadership as soon as you see it occur. Pull the individual aside, provide examples of where he has shown favoritism, and discuss some of the consequences, she says.
Favoritism between staff, such as a group of nurses that excludes a colleague, also causes tension. Again, Claypool recommends meeting with the individuals involved privately to discuss their exclusive behavior and explain why it is inappropriate. In many cases, she says, this discussion alone will solve the problem. "People sometimes don't even know that they are [displaying favoritism]," she says.
Be prepared
Despite your best efforts to prevent and ease tensions, serious conflicts may occur. Make sure you have a plan ready so that you can handle such problems quickly and appropriately.
Whatever you do, don't procrastinate when it comes to addressing conflict, says Donna Weinstock, president of Office Management Solution, a practice consulting firm. "If behaviors like that fester, they just go on and it makes it more difficult [to resolve them]," she says.
Addressing conflicts quickly can also prevent bigger headaches down the road, says De Lima. "If there is something going on, there may be an underlying issue that could be [in violation of] a federal or state regulation," she says. "Maybe there is an affair going on and that's why the favoritism is happening ... Those kinds of things are so litigious that if you don't take everything seriously and get at the bottom of the issue, you won't uncover if there is that kind of a problem going on."
As part of your conflict resolution plan, De Lima recommends creating a "performance management system" that includes policies addressing professionalism in the workplace, a code of conduct, a counseling form to use when conflicts occur, and an open-door grievance or complaint procedure. The grievance procedure should include a "well-thought out" investigation process so that leadership knows how to handle problems in a consistent manner (such as what questions to ask the relevant parties). That way staff will not perceive the investigator as biased, says De Lima.
Document and note
While addressing conflict immediately is important, so is addressing it the right way. That's where the counseling form comes in. De Lima recommends meeting with the individuals involved in the conflict privately, and providing them with a form that notes your concerns, and provides examples of the problem behavior. "The counseling form lets them know what policy they are violating, why they are violating it; and gives them specific examples including dates, times, actual words said, actual behaviors observed," she says. " ...Without giving them specific words that were used, the date and time it occurred ... you're not having much of an impact."
In addition to indicating that the conflict or the behavior leading to it is unacceptable, the counseling form will help protect you if you determine that you need to terminate an employee as a result, says De Lima. "The most exposure that organizations have is not choosing to formally document problems in the workplace that are violating policies and procedures, and instead having an informal conversation," she says. "With human resources, documentation is everything. You always document everything but you do it in an appropriate, objective way. Not my opinion, but what I saw, heard, [and] confirmed."
Open a dialogue
When meeting with the individuals involved in the conflict, ask them to explain - from their perspective - the root of the problem, says De Lima. "Get the 'real' story from everybody, document it carefully, and if there are discrepancies, try and identify why one person is saying one thing and one person is saying another."
Once you've met privately with each individual, Claypool recommends holding a joint discussion. Often, simply encouraging the individuals to talk things through will help ease tensions. "I can't give you a surefire resolution for all types of conflict, but if people just would be made to have a personal discussion and allow the conflict to come out in the open, and tell each other how they feel about this type of behavior, it would work itself out better rather than to just kind of keep it to yourself," says Claypool. "Polite professional confrontation about the conflict on both sides is what we like to see."
During the joint discussion, Hauck says the manager should make it clear that the staff members involved need to solve the problem on their own. For instance, ask them to work together to come up with a resolution plan, and write it down. "When you force the people with the conflict to write a mutual prescription, they'll take their own medicine before they'll take yours," says Hauck. "A manager shouldn't be a prescriptive manager; [he] should be a facilitative manager."
If you find that the staffers are having trouble making progress, prompt them with open-ended questions, and praise them when appropriate, says Scott.
Know when to let go
If you determine, from the initial complaints or concerns, that the conflict may be related to a state or federal violation of harassment, discrimination, or retaliation, you must initiate an unbiased investigation into the matter, says De Lima. This may require relocating one of the individuals to a different department, or shifting their work during the course of the investigation so the employees are not forced to continue working together. The most important thing, she says, is to not ignore apparent reported conflicts in the workplace. "You want to get to the bottom of these issues and address them effectively to prevent a more serious problem from occurring, such as a lawsuit."
If you find that the conflict is based on an issue that does not violate any state or federal discrimination or harassment regulations, make it clear that the staff members may face significant consequences if they do not resolve the issue, says De Lima. "Let them know that this isn't going to be tolerated, and whoever doesn't change their behavior will be gone," she says. "If the two of them cannot change their behavior in the workplace together, they will both be gone."
When necessary, don't hesitate to follow through with those warnings. The worst thing you can do, says Claypool, is fail to let staff go when necessary. The rest of your staff will see you as ineffectual, your best staff members may choose to leave for a healthier workplace, and you may struggle to recruit and retain great staff in the future. "I have seen staff conflict injure practices from a recruitment standpoint," says Claypool. "You get the swinging door with people coming in and out and the practice gets a bad reputation."
Aubrey Westgate is senior editor for Physicians Practice. She can be reached at aubrey.westgate@ubm.com.
In Summary
Don't let staff conflict harm your practice. Here's how to keep it from spiraling out of control:
• Encourage staff to have open and professional discussions about small annoyances
• Don't let leadership or staff play favorites
• Foster awareness about work style and personality differences
• Have a plan to address major conflicts quickly and appropriately
Quelling Disputing Staff
Want more tips on resolving conflict among medical practice staff? Take 15 minutes to view a presentation by Charlie Hauck of Growth Dynamics, who offers tips and strategies to reduce disputes in your office. To view the presentation, visit bit.ly/resolve-staff-conflict.
This article originally appeared in the October 2014 issue of Physicians Practice.